How to be calm, confident and poised in any situation
As we’ve seen throughout this course, preparation is key for success, but in the end, you’ve still got to show up and deliver for your audience on the day.
Delivering a presentation or facilitating a workshop session can be nerve-wracking.
It can feel like there’s so much to remember: from specific content details; to transitions between sections; setting up the room how you want it; being able to answer audience questions; and keeping to time… and those are just a few of the things to juggle.
(Let’s not even start on the nerves you may have when it comes to speaking in front of a room of people).
It may leave you feeling a little like this:
this is THE FEAR. We want to avoid this feeling.
However, there’s some good news.
You can remain calm, confident, and engaged during your session by utilizing just a few simple principles.
Even better, you’ve probably already applied these elsewhere in your life.
Today’s lesson brings together those principles along with some top tips from pro facilitators to help you facilitate your client experience like… well, a pro of course 🙂
Let’s get into it.
In a client experience, as in much of life, first impressions count.
The introduction you give about yourself at the start of the session can be an incredible lever to build trust, empathy, and engagement.
It can also put you on the back foot straight from the get-go.
To get the former to happen rather than the latter, at its essence your introduction should do two things: assert your credibility, and display your humanity.
What’s more, by focusing on credibility and humanity you can touch on the 7 key characteristics of the most compelling presenters, facilitators and educators:
Pretty cool, eh? Let’s see how to do it.
Credibility is companies you’ve worked at, projects you’ve completed, notable people you’ve collaborated with, events you’ve been invited to be a part of. It often boils down to names and accomplishments. You don’t want to be a name-dropper, but sprinkling in a couple of relevant names your audience is familiar with is an easy and effective way to display credibility.
Credibility in your introduction indicates you are Confident, Professional, and possess Gravitas.
If you are working with clients you already know, then you have a valuable opportunity to deepen your relationship and build trust. By actively listening, delivering on your promises, and consistently being responsive and honest, you can nurture a strong and trusting relationship with your clients.
Humanity is about you as a person; your life experiences, your personality, the places you’ve been, the emotions you’ve felt.
Authentically displaying your humanity in your introduction can give the audience a sense you’re Empathetic, Approachable, Charming, and Charismatic.
It’s really as simple as that. Showing your humanity also often does wonders to reduce an audience’s nerves or concerns, which in turn will probably do the same for yours.
Good news for everyone involved.
In the next section, I’ll share an example of how I use credibility and humanity in my introductions.
That’s right: just three principles are all you need to help make your introduction a secret weapon for client experience success. Here they are:
We’ve already talked about Credibility and Humanity; let’s look at the others.
The second principle is even simpler than the first: keep your introduction to a maximum of 1 minute. If you’re a great storyteller you can get away with a little longer, but as a rule of thumb keeping your introduction short and sharp is the best way to go.
The third principle requires a little more work – vary your introduction depending on the audience. This is important, as what’s credible for one audience may have next to no credibility with another.
To explore this principle a little further I often ask myself the following question ahead of my workshops:
Like a DJ with music, it’s worth taking the time to consider which stories are going to resonate with your audience
When I’m running sessions focused on tech, I obviously want my introduction to frame and underline my interest in technology. To do this, I have a story about my life as a DJ and talent agent and how I utilized the power of software to build my business.
This story can be very effective when talking to younger (i.e. under 35) audiences who are in more junior positions in a company, or work for themselves.
However, for a more senior corporate audience it’s unlikely to land so well, especially when the session is more specific, technical, or mission-critical. For better or worse, DJs have a bit of stigma attached and it can make me come off as a bit too casual.
On these occasions, I may instead mention my work coaching executives at multinational companies, or in technical product management roles where I saw certain thorny challenges appear.
Alternatively, I can tell the same DJ story but talk it about as building the systems to run an entertainment company.
Same story, same desired outcome, different context.
In both cases, my introduction aims to assert my credibility (through the brands and partners I’ve worked with over a period of time) and my humanity (through working in situations very similar to theirs).
You may remember this from the lesson on outcomes. That question of ‘what are you trying to convince them of?’ comes in handy here.
Introductions are a good way to cover off objections before they overtly come up. For example, using your intro to mention a common frustration people have with the topic can simultaneously build empathy and nix negativity.
Think back to Lesson 1 of who your experience is for. One of the questions was ‘What are they not yet voicing?’. If you know the answer to this you can tailor your intro to handle these concerns or objections straight out of the gate.
Here’s a really simple example you could use if you were to facilitate a workshop for a client:
“Like a lot of you shared in your registration forms for this session, my early time getting hands-on with [technology/product/skill] X felt really overwhelming.
After just a couple of hands-on sessions doing [Y] with my team I suddenly found myself feeling much more comfortable.
We’ll be aiming to do exactly that today.”
All this may seem like a lot of detail for what’s a very small part of your session, but as mentioned at the top of this section, a strong introduction can be one of your secret weapons.
As with your overall session preparation, it’s worth practicing your introduction so it feels solid but natural. Do it in the mirror, with a friend, on a walk with your dog – whenever, whoever, and wherever you can.
There’s much more we could cover on introductions (yes, really! for more on introductions check out this resource), but let’s move on to a few best practices within the session itself.
There are dozens of facilitation approaches and tactics you can use.
Some of these will work better in some sessions than others, so to get started here a few best practices you can go out and apply in pretty much every client experience you facilitate.
Alongside these best practices, there are of course many other tactics and delivery methods that can really help bring your session to life and make the client experience feel even more smooth and professional.
Here are 4 of the most effective.
The final part of this lesson focuses on wrapping up – both closing the session and what to do once your attendees have left the room.
When you’re bringing things to a close, here are 3 foundational elements to focus on.
This was a packed lesson, but following these tips will set you up for a great delivery.
And of course, you can come back and revisit this and every lesson whenever you like.
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